Horrific month 

Not updated this in a long time oops. Well Christmas was lovely with my wonderful kids. But I was gradually feeling worse and worse. My liver function results are poor so put it down to that but felt so poorly and was falling asleep at 6pm. Sometimes even before then. I went to the doctors and as usual they blame everything on the fact I have autoimmune disease and the fatigue that comes with it. I was attempting to do more hours at work but was really struggling. And was honestly really depressed. I didn’t have any life. There was no life to enjoy. I was so physically exhausted and ill every minute of every day. I wouldn’t wish it upon my worst enemy. I went through a stage of waking up at 4am and suffered horrific headaches every minute of the day. Finally I was due to be on a first aid course at work one morning. I woke up at 4 as normal and went downstairs and took my meds as usual and waited for them to kick in. They didn’t kick in and I just got worse and worse. Honestly… I was terrified. And for someone who is ill constantly says something. I ended up collapsing and was in and out of consciousness. Luckily as it was early morning Rob was home and had to call and ambulance. I was losing feeling in my body and having convulsions and just had no control over anything. So don’t really remember anything of the ambulance. 

A&e were fab and got me onto a ward very quickly. Saw a doctor who said I needed a CT scan and it would be that day and I don’t need to stay in. But it kept happening and there was a lot of crying that day. It came in waves like an attack and even IV morphine wasn’t helping. Eventually it started becoming clear I wasn’t going home. And I got moved to another ward. The next day I was utterly fed up despite the wonderful staff. I asked to discharge myself as they weren’t controlling the symptoms so it seems silly me being there. Rob and the kids were visiting and I was all packed up and certain I was leaving with them. One night was more than enough. So a doctor came to see me and finally explained that part of my brain was deprived of oxygen. Not exactly news I wanted to hear. But in a way it was a relief that they found something wrong and I might not spend the rest of my life like this. 

So settled in for another night and invested in the TV next to my bed. £10 a day!!!!! 

These two visiting cheered me up.

So the next morning time for another scan and found out then it was a blood clot but was starting to break up. So needed treatment to break it up entirely and could come home with yet more treatment. Also had some scans on my spine and turns out the arthritis has spread to my spine and is causing pressure in my brain causing one migraine after another. In turn causing large brain clots. As much as autoimmune disease sucks this is the first time it has caused something really serious. 

So I came home and honestly things weren’t much better and I was really depressed. I went back to work and barely made it through a 3 hour shift I felt that weak and my head hurt that much. My neurologist recommended looking into acupuncture so I did and discovered daith piercings. I wasn’t convinced but at breaking point where I had nothing to lose. So I tried it. 

Oh my God……..

I had a headache when I went in which the piercer said was good and it hurt like hell which kind of distracted me from the headache. And the headache miraculously went. I didn’t want to believe it had helped really. I still get a bit of a headache on the side that wasn’t pierced so going to get that side done too. 

I have spoken to the doctors and they aren’t convinced it will continue to work. Just because the cause of the migraines will always cause the pressure in my brain so that has to cause something I guess. So we will wait and see. 

In other news finley is doing great. Taking more every day. Still hard to understand but he is trying more words now and he still loves school. Very proud. 

Jess is struggling although had a good day today which is amazing. She is really struggling with her anxiety but is going through a lot and saw everything when we got the ambulance. I just hope we get more good days. I have more energy to do things with her now at least. 

I did try to find ways to have more of a life. I seem to have lost some friends recently and as someone who has been unpopular and disliked my entire life it sucks. I looked into becoming involved with amateur theatre again and I really want to and have found the perfect place but I just don’t think I have time which I an gutted about. Rehearsals are the same nights as jess’s gymnastics training. At first I thought we will just have to find a way. But it’s not fair as finley would be up until 9 so it isn’t an option. I am absolutely gutted. I guess I could look into going back to rock choir as an alternative. I need to decide. I need something for me. 

Ooh I have a wig now but think my hair is growing back which is exciting. I have just bought some new headscarves though. I have got the wig for work as actual find it a bit weird to wear when everyone knows I have no hair. I am really hoping it doesn’t fall out as really got my hopes up now. 

The wig!!!

My hair growing back with no bald patches yay. 

Am now half way through my first year at uni and it’s been hard. I picked social science as it looked really interesting but I have never done anything to do with it before so it’s been really hard. I haven’t done as well as I would like with my last essay so working hard to try and make that up this time. 

OK so I think I have written more than enough now. Sorry if I bored anyone why made it this far ha. 

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Back home :-)

Am back home and honestly am relieved. I had a fabulous time and am incredibly lucky to have wonderful children who were a pleasure to be with but….

I am exhausted. It’s hard to get my head around the fact I am 34 (well 35 in a few hours) yet a weekend away means a week to recover. My ankles are twice the size they should be, my wrists are swollen, my head is spinning and am dizzy, have fallen asleep once and am about to go to bed. At 8pm!!!!

My 8 year old is staying up later than me.

My consultant on Friday did say the fatigue can be the hardest thing to handle and get used to. He said due to the inflammation levels in my body me being awake for a day takes the same effort as a normal person staying awake for 3 days. Not even thinking about what my night shifts do to me ha.
Well my diet went ok. Wasn’t out of control and did no binge eating so really happy with that. But just want to see a loss at some point. No chance this week but maybe next week. Just need to move on from my meltdown last week. Already told rob I don’t want a cake tomorrow. Going to make myself a slimming world one. There is no way I am getting on my trampoline any time soon as just standing is hurting.

Urgh this is a miserable one. Just rubbish finding a lovely weekend away takes so much out of me.

Looked into joining rock choir earlier. Just something for me. But could only attend every other week with work and….it’s £25 a month. £25!!!!!!! Bit harsh to sing a little. Might keep thinking ha. Need a hobby, obviously nothing physical. I still want to do St John’s ambulance volunteer. Just concerned I would receive more first aid than I actually give ha.

Hmm think this might be referred to as over thinking. And this is why I need a blog……. X